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why must a gal/men change da partner?????? kdg2 aku cm x paham bf / gf yg sebok nk change her/ his partner ... konon ke sumthg better ... my only question who da 1 tht say tht changes is better ???? YOu kn ... so are u tht really perfect to said tht ur other half is not tht good? ... sbb bg aku la if u love him/ her jus luv da entire her/him .... ne x kdg2 bnda2 tu yg bole destract / ruing da relationship ... juz try to put urself to others ... rasa ape yg die rs bkn men ikut sedap rs je ... for example la i got a fwen her bf like her to wear tudung .. at first she is like liat ckit la kn .. bt bcoz of selalu gaduh over tht isue so thiz gal pn pakai la tudung .... bt noe wat die kai tudung dpn bf die je ... bile ladies day or hari bersama tema she still freehair ... so wat for ... bek die berubah bile ht die terbuka ke arah itu ... mmg aku x nafikan yg bertudung tu elok ... me too wear tudung ... tp bia dgn ht yg ikhlas ... bkn dipaksa ... kan? .... satu lg wat pe ko nk ubah die ... she is she ... or he is he ... mcm tu ko knal nape ko nk ubah ... let her/him ubah her/himself when she or he is really ready n ikhlas ....

for example la kn i used to have bf yg smoking ... at first mmg nk suwuh berenti ... yes he stop in front of me ... but bile ngn kwn2 .... u pn phm kn ... so lame2 jd mlz nk ckp ... bt now he oledy stop .... n i noe he stop becoz he sayannnngggg me n our future family .... thnx yang .....

so i think la kan bile u have try to change n u cant juz stop n try to luv tht weaknesses ... one day when he/she realize tht is wrong she/ he hersel/himself willl stop ... n change .... so no harm kn ... x yah gdh2 ... x yah nk pening2 pale ... x yah nk waste time kn .... so selamat mencuba ....